Time for a HALF YEAR CHECK-UP! Where oh where did half of this year go?
So this is what I wrote on December 23, 2008.
Been thinking about New Year Resolutions:
- date night with hubby once a month
- fix credit
- pedicures with Emily once a month
- fix credit
- more cooking for dinner
- fix credit
- limit eating out to twice a month
- fix credit
- run Bay to Breakers in May
- sprint triathlon in July
- relay team for CA International Marathon?????????
- cholesterol WAY below 200
- fix credit
- read 5-6 books out of my comfort zone -- I think the first book on the list is The Scarlet Letter and I believe my mom is going to read it too.
You'll notice that I have not listed LOSING WEIGHT on that list. My main goal right now is to be HEALTHY. That's all I'm concentrating on. I'm sure that weight will be lost, but for right now, it's not a main goal.
Obviously first and foremost was to work on
fixing my credit - did ya get that? I only mentioned it a couple of times. Our credit is not horrible, but it's not fantastic and it can be way better. I'm sad to say that I haven't been working that hard on it though. But
mine eyes have seen the glory (or something to that effect) and we've both agreed to stop spending money for three months to build up the accounts and pay down some bills. And in the 15 years that I've known my husband, we are JUST NOW actively talking about it and balancing the checkbook together. So that's a huge step in the right direction.
Date Night with Hubby: well we haven't been actively going out, but we have been spending a lot more time together, so all is fine there.
Pedicures with Em: it's a money thing, so no pedicures for us, but we've been to a couple of movies together which has been fun. As a foursome with both husbands, we've been hanging out a lot -- playing Rock Band and sometimes even letting the kids play too.
{So I wrote this whole long post back on Monday, and then it didn't save, so here it is on Wednesday and I need to rewrite the rest of what wasn't saved.}Dinner: for the first part of the year I barely cooked. How sad. We had a lot of PB&J sandwiches instead. When we had the opportunity to eat together as a family, we didn't do it, and now that hubby is back to closing most nights, we really don't eat as a family. But that all changed about 2 weeks ago when the kid started having some attitude and behavioral issues. I firmly believe it was because of the chaos our house was in, so now, as a rule and one that we've stuck to, we are eating together 5 out of 7 nights a week. Even if hubby isn't home, Brian and I still sit at the table together. It's how I grew up, and it's how Brian will grow up. I'm only sorry I let it fall by the wayside for so long. That went against everything I had known and we paid for it with a backtalker with a head roll added in. No he didn't. Oh yes he did.
Restaurants: Like most things on the list, this too, fell by the wayside, but times have changed in the past month, so in that sense, we are doing better. I'm finally realizing how much a family of 3 costs to eat out, especially if you include iced teas and tip. Silly for us to be out there, when we have perfectly good food at home to cook.
Bay to Breakers:
check!
Sprint Triathlon: scheduled to occur in 38 days!!! Been training for it, but I need to up my distances a lot more and do way more bricks.
Relay Team for CA International Marathon: still questionable. Not really high on the list of priorities. Some days I think it would be fun, other days not so much. If I'm gonna do it, it's gotta be fun.
Cholesterol: will be checked in September, but giving up the soda, I'm sure, has helped immensely.
Read 5-6 books out of my Comfort Zone: Of the 24 books that I've read this year, none of them were out of my comfort zone, so this needs some work. Up next on the audio list is Jane Eyre.
Health: Hmmmmm. Where to start? Well I haven't lost weight, but my clothes are all looser. I don't drink soda anymore. I don't eat fast food. I eat lots of fruits and veggies (although I think I could be eating more of them). My workouts have been awesome, occurring 5-6 times a week. I'm doing most stuff right and that's what counts.
So what's in store for the next 153 days?
- fix credit
- balance checkbook everyday
- eat dinner at table
- no soda
- no restaurants with drive-thrus
- sprint triathlon
- cholesterol WAY below 200
- read 5-6 books out of my comfort zone
- continue reading with Brian every night, even if it's just one book
- spend time with the ones that I love
- remembering that life is not all about a scale. It's about how you feel at the end of the day. And most days, I feel pretty frickin fantastic.
HAPPY HALF YEAR TO ALL FOUR OF YOU WHO STILL READ MY BLOG!!!